Relationships Bring Up Our Deepest Wounds
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JOURNAL
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- Dec 21, 2022
- 2 min
Relationships are Not Gender Specific
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- Apr 13, 2021
- 2 min
LOVE. Do they have a limited capacity for meeting you in intimacy?
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![LOVE. Polarity through a Trauma-Informed Lens. (Part 4)](https://static.wixstatic.com/media/11062b_5620b93a2bb14715bf47f8606b625468~mv2.jpg/v1/fill/w_514,h_386,fp_0.50_0.50,q_90,enc_auto/11062b_5620b93a2bb14715bf47f8606b625468~mv2.webp)
- Oct 24, 2020
- 3 min
LOVE. Polarity through a Trauma-Informed Lens. (Part 4)
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![LOVE. Balancing Sexual Polarity with Emotional Connection for Sustainability](https://static.wixstatic.com/media/adf54b28586e4e7198920b3d77cc4457.jpg/v1/fill/w_514,h_386,fp_0.50_0.50,q_90,enc_auto/adf54b28586e4e7198920b3d77cc4457.webp)
- Oct 22, 2020
- 2 min
LOVE. Balancing Sexual Polarity with Emotional Connection for Sustainability
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![SEX. How Can We Create Sexual Chemistry without a Trauma Bond?](https://static.wixstatic.com/media/11062b_947138e5362545c49e5d09a6aea44ae9~mv2.jpg/v1/fill/w_514,h_386,fp_0.50_0.50,q_90,enc_auto/11062b_947138e5362545c49e5d09a6aea44ae9~mv2.webp)
- Oct 22, 2020
- 2 min
SEX. How Can We Create Sexual Chemistry without a Trauma Bond?
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![LOVE. Fear of Intimacy + Our Defense Mechanisms to Love](https://static.wixstatic.com/media/11062b_00ca6081d0964696b94de4fc008f64f7~mv2.jpeg/v1/fill/w_514,h_386,fp_0.50_0.50,q_90,enc_auto/11062b_00ca6081d0964696b94de4fc008f64f7~mv2.webp)
- Aug 5, 2020
- 3 min
LOVE. Fear of Intimacy + Our Defense Mechanisms to Love
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![LOVE. How Our Perceived 'Certainty' Around Racism Is Contributing to the Problem](https://static.wixstatic.com/media/11062b_46af75a907db4cfb945f0c8b989c3b60~mv2_d_7570_5046_s_4_2.jpg/v1/fill/w_514,h_386,fp_0.50_0.50,q_90,enc_auto/11062b_46af75a907db4cfb945f0c8b989c3b60~mv2_d_7570_5046_s_4_2.webp)
- Jun 3, 2020
- 2 min
LOVE. How Our Perceived 'Certainty' Around Racism Is Contributing to the Problem
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![LOVE. Open Loops in Conversation](https://static.wixstatic.com/media/8909faba094d4305816f62c2211ac0b2.jpg/v1/fill/w_514,h_386,fp_0.50_0.50,q_90,enc_auto/8909faba094d4305816f62c2211ac0b2.webp)
- Mar 30, 2020
- 2 min
LOVE. Open Loops in Conversation
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![LOVE. The Nice Guy Phenomenon](https://static.wixstatic.com/media/e51b57b34fb642dbb8fb9c4f060be885.jpg/v1/fill/w_514,h_386,fp_0.50_0.50,q_90,enc_auto/e51b57b34fb642dbb8fb9c4f060be885.webp)
- Dec 13, 2019
- 2 min
LOVE. The Nice Guy Phenomenon
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![LOVE. November: #TheMonthOfExpandingPleasure](https://static.wixstatic.com/media/b51f18a05d20490db9ca66a716501e35.jpg/v1/fill/w_514,h_386,fp_0.50_0.50,q_90,enc_auto/b51f18a05d20490db9ca66a716501e35.webp)
- Nov 4, 2019
- 2 min
LOVE. November: #TheMonthOfExpandingPleasure
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![LOVE. I Fear I Will Never Find Love](https://static.wixstatic.com/media/11062b_4bd02e8f5cd04bce9bfd05ad9d49a30b~mv2_d_5250_3500_s_4_2.jpg/v1/fill/w_514,h_386,fp_0.50_0.50,q_90,enc_auto/11062b_4bd02e8f5cd04bce9bfd05ad9d49a30b~mv2_d_5250_3500_s_4_2.webp)
- Oct 29, 2019
- 5 min
LOVE. I Fear I Will Never Find Love
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![LOVE. Relationship Design](https://static.wixstatic.com/media/11062b_28b6e0a55a724effaaba34f10dd4c0ad~mv2_d_2000_1333_s_2.jpg/v1/fill/w_514,h_386,fp_0.50_0.50,q_90,enc_auto/11062b_28b6e0a55a724effaaba34f10dd4c0ad~mv2_d_2000_1333_s_2.webp)
- Oct 29, 2019
- 5 min
LOVE. Relationship Design
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![LOVE. Holding Space](https://static.wixstatic.com/media/1cd9eba76a294db7befc9b890490d7f6.jpg/v1/fill/w_514,h_386,fp_0.50_0.50,q_90,enc_auto/1cd9eba76a294db7befc9b890490d7f6.webp)
- Oct 29, 2019
- 3 min
LOVE. Holding Space
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![LOVE. The ‘Right’ Way to Keep a Guy/Girl Interested](https://static.wixstatic.com/media/570924ad283d4e00a380a7c89b464cf9.jpg/v1/fill/w_514,h_386,fp_0.50_0.50,q_90,enc_auto/570924ad283d4e00a380a7c89b464cf9.webp)
- Oct 29, 2019
- 3 min
LOVE. The ‘Right’ Way to Keep a Guy/Girl Interested
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![LOVE. Why do I Keep Picking the Same Type of Person?](https://static.wixstatic.com/media/49b8ae886b4e4b2fa98333cda72eb6c7.jpg/v1/fill/w_514,h_386,fp_0.50_0.50,q_90,enc_auto/49b8ae886b4e4b2fa98333cda72eb6c7.webp)
- Oct 29, 2019
- 4 min
LOVE. Why do I Keep Picking the Same Type of Person?
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![LOVE. Dating More Than One?](https://static.wixstatic.com/media/d4feca9b2222e4c23072107791b8c4a4.jpg/v1/fill/w_514,h_386,fp_0.50_0.50,q_90,enc_auto/d4feca9b2222e4c23072107791b8c4a4.webp)
- Oct 29, 2019
- 4 min
LOVE. Dating More Than One?
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![LOVE. How to Get Them to Show Up More Powerfully In the Relationship](https://static.wixstatic.com/media/b80cfb1d0503431592436072e9404824.jpg/v1/fill/w_514,h_386,fp_0.50_0.50,q_90,enc_auto/b80cfb1d0503431592436072e9404824.webp)
- Oct 28, 2019
- 5 min
LOVE. How to Get Them to Show Up More Powerfully In the Relationship
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![LOVE. The Emotionally Unavailable](https://static.wixstatic.com/media/c08122ba6204b4371e23849098e1bad7.jpg/v1/fill/w_514,h_386,fp_0.50_0.50,q_90,enc_auto/c08122ba6204b4371e23849098e1bad7.webp)
- Oct 28, 2019
- 6 min
LOVE. The Emotionally Unavailable