COMMUNICATION. Open loops—when we are left with questions still about a particular event, person, perspective. The output of energy that we are expending rec...

The phenomenon of the ‘nice guy’ in dating. Very often the reality is that there are a lot of things going on in his mind that are natural curiosities, fanta...

How good can we stand it? How much pleasure can we hold? The potential? Infinite. Yet our conditioning says only so much. Hitting the edge of what we’ve know...

“I fear I will never find love.” This is probably the number one fear/question I hear from men and women alike. And while I’m not a psychic (well…) to be abl...

What do we imagine when we say the words “relationship” or “commitment” or “marriage”? Two individuals committing their life, sex, intimate self-knowledge, a...

What does it mean to “hold space,” and why has it become such a buzz word? Holding space is creating an environment with your own presence for someone to fee...

I hear talk among friends and colleagues about their latest endeavors in dating and sex, all of whom are trying to figure out the “right” approach to keeping...

“He’s just like all the others–distant, only texting me when he feels like it, but then he says he loves me and I just feel so good.” While the people we dat...

Are you ‘safe’ in your relationship? Over time, relationships change, expand, end as the people within them change and evolve. There is no real guarantee tha...

Navigating any type of relationship comes with its own unique (and not so unique) challenges. Navigating open or poly relationships are no exception. While i...

“My man isn’t showing up for me powerfully. How can I get him to step up?” I hear this statement made so often from women who are not feeling supported or ge...

This article was originally published on Elephant Journal on December 1, 2016 and can be viewed here There is an appeal to potential partners who are not ope...